If your boss is so demanding that you have to lie to protect family time, business trip to fulfill the needs of your family, will you fabricate work-related heath reason?

1. If your boss is so demanding that you have to lie to protect family time, business trip to fulfill the needs of your family, will you fabricate work-related heath reason? Are there any alternative to lying? Explain

2. If you where the employer, how would you hand each of the instances above